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Education has always been
important to Fayruz Benyousef's family. That is why, when she was only
a toddler her family trekked to Pennsylvania from Libya. Fayruz's parents
earned their Master's degrees and would go on to pursue their PhD's, except
only Fayruz's mother, Noria Treki, would earn hers. Her father, who dreamed
of getting his doctorate, was prevented when he relapsed with the Leukemia
that had been haunting him for years. After undergoing a bone marrow transplant,
which seemed successful at first, other complications arose and he passed
away.
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"I
had to go to college and wanted to do so, the question was how on
earth I would pay for it."
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One year before her father
passed away, Fayruz was diagnosed with Hodgkin's
disease, a cancer of the lymphatic
system, at the age of 16. Her treatment, and her father's illness kept
them from returning to Libya. Fortunately, alhamdulillah, she has been
cancer free since going into remission in 1987.
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Despite Hodgkin's, Fayruz was active in her high school- president of
the student council, class historian, captain of cross country, homecoming
queen and an honor society member. "I was even the school mascot for our
football games. I
dressed in a large white ram suit!" recalls Fayruz. Additionally, she
was top of her class, and highly dedicated to pursuing a college degree.
Going to college was a challenge though, as her father had just passed
away and her mother was still finishing up her PhD dissertation. She says,
"I knew that I had to go to college and wanted to do so, but the question
was how on earth we would pay for it." But Fayruz managed to earn scholarships
that helped her to alleviate some of the cost. She attended Dickinson
College, a small, selective, liberal arts school in Carlisle, Pennsylvania,
where she earned her B.A. in History with a minor in French.
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Fayruz
Benyousef
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Tripoli, Libya
12 Dec 1971
Austin, Texas
Fundraising Consultant
Development Director,
Ballet Austin
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"Upon
graduating," says Fayruz, "I realized
I was too burned out to go on immediately
to graduate school, so I landed a job on campus working in the fundraising
arena- I was hired as the Assistant Director of Annual Giving." She entered
into a world of philanthropy that she had not
imagined existed, which would become
the focus of her career. In 1997 she began working for The Dini Partners,
Inc., a fundraising consulting firm that helps nonprofits with various
projects centering on major gift fundraising. Fayruz now lives in Austin,
where in April of 2002 she began a new position as Development Director
for Ballet Austin, where she will continue her fundraising work.
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"The
reason I was named 'Fayruz' is because my mother was once named
'Fayruz Libya'- she has an incredible voice."
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Fayruz has also been married
for three and a half
years. Her husband, Malek
Ben-Musa, is a former professional
soccer player, and currently a professional
coach. Sports has become a major part
of the family's life, as Fayruz used to teach step aerobics and kickboxing
at a local YMCA. These days she stays in shape by weight training and
doing yoga.
This well-rounded arts enthusiast
also dabbles in Arabic calligraphy and sings. "The reason I was named
'Fayruz' is because my mother was once named 'Fayruz Libya'- she has an
incredible voice. I think I was blessed, alhamdulillah, to have inherited
a little of it, and so she and I both enjoy singing," says Fayruz.
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so many Americans, friends and co-workers, have a hard time understanding
our culture, let alone our faith." |
To maintain
a sense of Libyan
culture in her life, Fayruz savors the authentic cuisine and loves to
cook with Malek. She admits, though, that it is a challenge to foster
the culture in a foreign country, "because so many Americans, friends
and co-workers have a hard time understanding our culture, let alone our
faith." But, food has become a hobby and a passion in her household, and
she is always treating friends to the "joys of the good Libyan food."
Couscousi and Rishtat Kasskass are among her favorite dishes, but anything
that her mom, Noria, or Malek's mother, Duja, make she will go "ga-ga"
over.
Fayruz Benyousef is a testament
that great things can be accomplished in the face of immense hardship.
Education, family, and culture have always been central themes in her
life, and although she is still young, she stands as proof to the endurance
of Libyan spirit.
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